How to deal with all kinds of problems when you are in an interracial relationship?

When you are dating your girlfriend or boyfriend from different race,  every one meets all kinds of problems have arisen from interracial relationship outside of normal relationship conflicts. For example, cultural clashes, socioeconomic differences, family disapproval or social pressure. If problems arose, how did the couples resolve them.

I meet my girlfriend on free interracial dating sites. I have got together with her for two years and there are acouple things that were different. I noticed much more people would stare at us, especially Black men. In the area where we live many White people date Black people so it wasn't like we were shunned and we never had anyone say anything straight up racist to us. But I did notice when people would stare at us. Once we walked by a group of Black college students and one of them was like "Oh look an interracial couple" for some reason I got really upset about that, I felt like they were talking about us like we were a zoo attraction.

Don't get me wrong I'm not saying black people disapproved of our relationship more, in fact it's statistically proven that Blacks support interracial dating more than White people do. I just felt sometimes that maybe because I was a white guy dating a black girl it was more of a rare thing to see. I ALWAYS see white women with black men but not so much vice versa.

I don't have a race preferences, and I don't date girls based on race. I date girls based on personality and values they have. I really didn't like people thinking I was a white dude with jungle fever dating any black girl he could get his hands on. If my ex were White, Asian, or Hispanic I would have been just as attracted to her, and I felt that was very ignorant for White people to say tome. 

As for family... yeah she kept me a secret from her family for about a year. She came from an African family that was also Muslim, I come from a Brazilian family that is Catholic, my ex was scared that her father would disapprove. When she finally introduced me her Mother was SUPER nice to me, she really liked me and so did her little brother, but her dad not so much haha. But I think that was more because I was a guy who was dating his little girl and NOT because I was white.

She's my ex for a reason but none of it has to do with race or culture, we had the typically relationship problems every couple has and we broke up for reasons that every typical couple breaks up for.

How to White Women Looking For Black Men Today?

If you are a black man looking for a white woman in our world today but are not successful, if you are citing lack of available single white women as the reason for you still being single, then maybe there is something you are not doing right. Maybe you are looking for dating white  women in all the wrong places. If you are hitting the bars or nightclubs in the hopes that you will get a single white woman ready and willing to date a black man, unless this bar or nightclub is specifically a match-making kind of bar specifically for black men dating white women hook-ups, you are going about your search the wrong way. 

If you are walking down the streets eying every white woman in the hopes that one will notice you are interested in her and surrender herself freely to you, WRONG AGAIN! I could go on and on with these “wrong place to search for white women” scenarios but I am sure my point right now has hit home. (And if not, then your way of thinking is just wrong.)

If White women looking for black men interracial connections is what you are looking for, then you have to up your game and start surrounding your self with these white women; start visiting places where you will find an abundance of these women. But just being someplace where lots of single white women hang out isn’t enough. What you really need is a place where these single white women are there with a goal to meet men; and not just any men: Black men. A place where the women there are available and are looking for black men white women relationships.

Naturally, with such busy schedules of today’s singles and so much diversity in cultures, it isn’t very easy to find all exclusive places for (say) two specific races. But when you go online, there are very many niche dating sites and some are specific to black white dating. And this is where your search should begin. This is where lots of Black men white women connections happen. And today, the singles who are with it do their datingthe online way because it is the place to be, it is hassle free and it is the most convenient way to look for love and even just dates or hook ups (so long as both of you are on the same page). And this is how white women look for their black men. And this is how most black men find their white women.